Alissa Lopez

My condolences, as feelings of pain and bitterness become unbearable. It is my desire to convey a comforting thought based on the Holy Scriptures

          

  John 5:28 "Do not marvel at this, because the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out."

 

 

This passage speaks of the resurrection of our loved ones. It is not God's plan to see us suffer and die, so He extends the following invitation to us: "Come near to God and He will draw near to you" (James 4:8)

 

Please go to the following link to obtain more information regarding the Hope expressed in this passage and again we are sorry for your loss.

 

 http://www.jw.org 

                                               ~~~~~~~~~~~Never saying GoodBye~~~~~~~~
                                                                                            
                                          
                                                 
                                                                                                                                        

                                 xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox                                                                                                                                                                                                      Alissa Marie   





& Mommy

                                                                                    

It was kaylas birthday yesterday and I thought about u how crazy its been five years, god do i miss our little talks we had, Im going to be 25 in july, and i loved how u would protect me from all the dangers in the world, and how u would say thats my little sister, shes not going to do that, u always looked out for me, I wish I wouldve looked out for you, but i was so wrapped in my life, I take that back now though and as i get older I promise I will be there for your children, our children are going to grow up together. Im going to Florida in June and mom, nonnie and I and ryan are going to take the kids to Disney, there first trip there, and Im going to make sure its magical and were going to spread some of your ashes there so u can be there in the wind, surrounded by us. Its going to great I love u alissa, and one day Im going to have someone take a pic of my tatoo of my back that I got just for u alissa.. a cross with your name, your birthdate, and your death, no one has seen it but I will show it one day... you will be with me forever and i have proof of that because well you are tatooed to my body. and that can never go away>>> I miss you sooo much, if possible come to me from time to time, your face sometimes fades from my mind like u never existed but i know u did I love you alissa and i will miss u for life....

Love u always,
Nicole

Alyssa, the day I learned of your passing I was devastated. I still am.  I had the same problem as you so I never tried to help you and for that Ill always feel guilty. I remember the last time I saw you and its a memory Ill never forget. I just really wish I could have told you how I really cared for you and how much I will miss you.  I read all your memorials and realize how much you were loved by all who knew you.  You will always be missed and in our hearts.   Al

                                         


ALISSA, HAPPY BIRTHDAY! WE ALL MISS & THINK OF YOU OFTEN...LOVE YOUR
NAUDIA & CARTER TOO.

WHEN A LOVED ONE DIES

Have you lost a loved one in death? The pain, the grief, and the feelings of helplessness can seem unbearable. At such times, we need to go to God’s Word for comfort. (2 Corinthians 1:3, 4) The Bible helps us to understand how Jehovah and Jesus feel about death. Jesus, who perfectly reflected his Father, knew the pain of losing someone in death. (John 14:9) When he was in Jerusalem, Jesus used to visit Lazarus and his sisters, Mary and Martha, who lived in the nearby town of Bethany. They became close friends. The Bible says: “Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus.” (John 11:5) Though, Lazarus died.  How did Jesus feel about losing his friend? The account tells us that Jesus joined Lazarus’ relatives and friends as they grieved over this loss. Seeing them, Jesus was deeply moved. He “groaned in the spirit and became troubled.” Then, the account says, “Jesus gave way to tears.” (John 11:33, 35) Did Jesus’ grief mean that he had no hope? Not at all. In fact, Jesus knew that something wonderful was about to happen. (John 11:3, 4) Still, he felt the pain and sorrow that death brings.  In a way, Jesus’ grief is encouraging to us. It teaches us that Jesus and his Father, Jehovah, hate death. But Jehovah God is able to fight and overcome that enemy! Let us see what God enabled Jesus to do.

For more reference about this wonderful hope you can visit www.watchtower.org 

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Alissa I just wanted to say Merry Christ-mas to you and Jermey too.

Keith is coming home soon my prayers are answered, you know he has a hard road to walk

you & your cousin know this walk is hard please both of you watch over him give him help him

give him the strength & keep him safe. We all return to dust when we pass the bible says our

loved ones will rise up first when he comes they wait with our father until he returns and god

only knows when that will be he says he comes like a twinkle and a blink of an eye that fast

just let us be ready . Keith is also your cousin with the same issues help him he will need his

family angeles protecting him. --->  PSALM 91<---- I prey over him my most favorite Psalm

                                              Love You & Jeremy

On your 1st Angelversary

Alissa Lopez

(1982 ~ 2009)

Fly free ~angel~ Alissa

just beyond the rainbows and the clouds!

Have a beautiful time in Heaven!!

God Bless!

Knowing my neice, I know that she would have never wanted it this way leaving so suddenly,

I feel was a dyiing accident, a true accident. The Alissa I knew could or maybe would have changed when she had the final enough is enough or say. She truly was a very strong willed person that just got mixed up in a wrong turn fork at the end of the road ( as so many of us) a quick accident that she just couldn't turn back or find her way back. Believe me I know Alissa! if there was a way she would have remained on this earth to be present with her family no matter how great the price or how many stars she would have to knock down to get here she'd be here if it was on Santas slate with gifts for her children. Alissa had such a big heart and full of big dreams that her wishes were that just everything is okay with everyone. I am remembering her ways and how she would say things out of her love.. I am very proud to say that my daughter will be naming her soon daughter (Alissa.Marie) (In rememberence of alissa and the beautifull name of her cousin)

and remembering how strong she was her traights will remind Alissa,Marie everthing she could be and can be by hearing of the Alissa in her dreams with her loving protection covered over her.

When Andrea kissed me in my sleep and in her sleep, the night I had awaken sleeping with andrea

& my grandson in the same bed at 3am I so thought of Alissa kissing me good-bye with such love like good-bye Aunt Terri, But it was my daughter kissing me which she had never did at this time in the early mourning, this was not so like andreas character to do that.. This was the same day as her last good-bye with family in FL. So you see Miss Alissa was a very strong will person never forgetting to say good-by and Alissa, Marie will be a living rememberence part of you...

I do believe this and Alissa I once again I truly feel you, your sweet presence right now, your love for your family & children. Naming Alissa, Marie is ment to be and I know your saying it's okay tell that crazy Andrea cousin of mine It's okay and I'll watch over her too & that my Aunt Terri will always remember me and love me when she hears Andrea yelling ALISSA...

                               Love YOU Honey,

I know you can hear us...Your Mothers cry missing love for you Alissa Lopez.. help her heal with your rememberence loving ways, your smiles.your big heart, keep Naudia with her to hold a apart of you that no-one can ever separate this special childs love from her, May God keep this child safe & always close near to her.

IN JESUS NAME I PREY...

 

Like you always said   IT'S GOING TO BE OKAY.....

                               

 

 

 

When i first look at the reply from Barbara your sister i was upset but i kept reading it and came to the thought that she was sooo right....you were so selfish u did take the easy road and i am so sorry for that....I know u had your problems but to go out this way to put yourself  and your family through this was the easy way for your self... I wish u hadnt done this... thank you Barbara for making that known...We love you and I know it was not easy for u to say this...Love u...With that said I still miss you and beg for u to watch over your children.....I also know you were in such pain that u felt there was no other way....but my god there was another way....we begged u to see that ......I miss u sooo muchhhhh... and I will always love you.......Thanks again Barb for making your statement......Tracee

Well Ms. Alyssa, I must say that I have never been around children more beautiful or funny and   

loving as yours, except perhaps my own.  Really, i must say that your children are amazing and are going to rise to the heights that you dreamt of.  They will do these great things because of your Mother and Nonnie, they love your babies unconditionally and want them to be the best they can be, for you, in memory of you. 

Perhaps you don't understand the greatest gift yet.  The greatest gift was you.  Now that you are gone the greatest gift is your children, God bless them.  Your family grieves deeply for you, I grieve for you because the way you left this life is not aceptable to any of us left behind.  You should be here with your smiling children, you were selfish, I'm not afraid to say that, you were weak, I'm not afraid to say that either.  Please beg your forgiveness with our Lord and then make sure you watch over your family. 

Visit your mother soon, she cries often, she cries deep, she has a broken heart.  She misses you.

From another mother, Barbara

Sister is someone who is caring & sharing. Sister can understand things you never said.
She can understand pain which is not visible to anyone.

 

sister, please hold my hand
Because without u I can't stand
For we were put on this earth for a reason
To go through every good and bad season..



God sent us to be sisters
So we can be best of friends
To be there for one another
Even when there is pain..

 

Sisters is probably the most competitive relationship within the family, but once sisters are grown, it becomes the strongest relationship

Sister, Sister
Do u hear me cry
Do u feel my touch?
Do u even feel my rhyme?
Sis, sis u know I care
I care 4 u sis I do, I do
I know I m not their for u

#1 Sister, Please Hold My Hand

Sister, please hold my hand
As we journey through this land
Together we stand, together we will fall
No matter what, God will keep us together
That will be the best of all

Sister, please hold my hand
Because without you I can't stand
For we were put on this earth for a reason
To go through every good and bad season

Sister, please hold my hand
As our strength, together, builds each other to become strong
So that our love for each other will last long

MOTHER'S TRUE LOVE!

 

 

                       A Mothers love is something that no one can explain,

It is made with deep devotion and of sacrifice & pain.

It is endless and unselfish and enduring comes what may,

for nothing can destroy it or take that that love away...

it is patient & forgiving when all others are forsaking,

It never fails or falters eventhough the heart is breaking

It believes beyoned believing like  no other (like our fathers love in heaven)

when the world around condemns, it glows with all the beauty of the brightest gems.

It is far beyond defining, it defies all explanation, and it still remains a secret

like the mysteries of creation... ( again like the hevenly father only knows) 

A many splenoured miracle man cannot understand,

And another wondrous evidence of Gods tender guiding hand.

                                                                   With Love!

 

 

Dearest Tracee,

           There are no words that any of us can really say to you that will even come close to making you feel better about what has happened.Having said that,there is one thing that as a Christian,I am sure of.........that is that your daughter is now at peace,walking in the light,and that you will be together one day again. This seperation is only temporary,just remember that.And remember,as we talked about,that she is finally at peace.And also remember that HIS plans are not OUR plans,and HIS plans are Higher than ours.HE knows what is best for us,and it was best that your daughter was taken to be with HIM now.She is the lucky one...she will not have to face the things to come,as we will.Please remain strong and know that this is best.I am here for you....and you are in my heartfelt prayers.

                                                                                                                                                                           

DEAR TRACEE & CARMEN

     I AM SO SORRY AND I WISH THINGS COULD HAVE TURNED OUT DIFFERENTLY... AS YOUR DAUGHTER, GRAND DAUGHTER, AND MY BEST FRIEND....WE ALL LOVED HER SO MUCH AND TRIED TO LEAD HER IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION SHES SAFE NOW WHERE SHE CAN FEEL NO PAIN AND IS WATCHING OVER ALL OF US. IT IS SO HARD TO BE STRONG ....BUT IF ALISSA TAUGHT US ANYTHING IS WAS TO BE STRONG....PLEASE KNOW THAT I AM HERE IF YOU NEED ME FOR ANYTHING PLEASE DONT FORGET ABOUT ME AND YOU ARE ALL IN MY PRAYERS! NONNIE YOU ARE DOING SUCH A EXCELLANT JOB WITH CARTER AND IF ALISSA WANTED ANYTHING MORE IT WOULD BE FOR HER NONNIE TO TEACH HIM HOW TO BE STRONG BECAUSE YOU WERE HER "ROCK" AND YOU WILL BE CARTERS MOUNTAIN AND HE WILL CLIMB SO HIGH WITH YOU AND TRACEE RIGHT BY HIS SIDE!

                             LOVE ALWAYS PURISSA!

Dear Tracee:

I am so sorry to hear of Alissa's passing.  There are  no words that I can think of to make the hurt go away, but know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and I'll always be here to listen if you need me.  Hopefully with the love and support of family and friends, the ache that is in your heart today will be lessened and more bareable as time goes on.

In our thoughts and prayers,

Elaine and Tom Sezna

Dear Tracee,

 

I'm so sorry to hear about your daughters passing.  I know it was too soon and unexpected.  If there is anything I can do, please do not hesitate to call me.  I will keep you in my heart and prayers.  I can not think of a worse thing than loosing a child.  If you need to talk, I'm always here to listen.

 

Take Care,

 

Gwen and Susan